Only a
generation ago, a single manual wage provided the wage-earner, his wife and
their several children with a quality of life unimaginable even on two
professional salaries today.
This
impoverishment has been so rapid and so extreme that most people, including
almost all politicians and commentators, simply refuse to acknowledge that it
has happened.
But it has indeed happened. And it is still going on.
If fathers
matter, then they must face up to their responsibilities, with every
assistance, including censure where necessary, from the wider society,
including when it acts politically as the State.
A legal
presumption of equal parenting. Restoration of the tax allowance for fathers
for so long as Child Benefit is being paid to mothers.
Restoration of the
requirement that providers of fertility treatment take account of the child’s
need for a father.
Repeal
of the ludicrous provision for two women to be listed as a child’s parents on a
birth certificate, although even that is excelled by the provision for two men
to be so listed.
And for
paternity leave to be made available at any time until the child was 18 or left
school, thereby reasserting paternal authority, and thus requiring paternal
responsibility, at key points in childhood and adolescence.
Of course a new
baby needs her mother. But a 15-year-old might very well need her father, and
that bit of paternity leave that he has been owed these last 15 years.
That
authority and responsibility require an economic basis such as only the State
can ever guarantee, and such as only the State can very often deliver.
That
basis is high-wage, high-skilled, high-status employment. All aspects of public
policy must take account of this urgent social and cultural need.
Not least,
that includes energy policy: the energy sources to be preferred by the State
are those providing the high-wage, high-skilled, high-status jobs that secure
the economic basis of paternal authority in the family and in the wider
community.
So, nuclear power. And coal, not dole.
Moreover,
paternal authority cannot be affirmed while fathers are torn away from their
children and harvested in wars.
Especially, though not exclusively, since those
sent to war tend to come from working-class backgrounds, where starting to have
children often still happens earlier than has lately become the norm.
Think of
those very young men whom we see going off or coming home, hugging and kissing
their tiny children.
You can
believe in fatherhood, or you can support wars under certainly most and
possibly all circumstances, the latter especially in practice today even if not
necessarily in the past or in principle.
You cannot do both.
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